Day - God bless you!  What a wonderful idea - to reach out to a bereaved brother.  I just know it would "touch" him.  For any who would like to send a card or word of encouragement his address is:

R. Alderman
912 Aquaview Drive
Kernersville, NC 27009

Or you could send email condolences to me at:

lllandau@triad.rr.com
(These are all lowercase L's)

I would be more than happy to print and get them to him.  It is sad enough losing your loved one but to think that nobody cares.... 

Thank you.  Much love to my brothers and sisters here at this wonderful Doves site!
Linda