Being
a veterinarian, I had been called to examine a
ten-year-old Irish Wolfhound named Belker. The dog's
owners, Ron, his wife Lisa, and their little boy Shane,
were all very attached to Belker, and they were hoping for
a miracle.
I examined
Belker and found he was dying of cancer.
I
told the family we couldn't do anything for Belker, and
offered to perform the euthanasia procedure for the old
dog in their home.
As we made arrangements,
Ron and Lisa told me they thought it would be good for
six-year-old Shane to observe the procedure as they felt
that Shane might learn something from the
experience.
The next
day, I felt the familiar catch in my throat as Belker's
family surrounded him.
Shane seemed so calm,
petting the old dog for the last time, that I wondered if
he understood what was going on. Within a few
minutes, Belker slipped peacefully away.
The
little boy seemed to accept Belker's transition without
any difficulty or confusion.
We sat together
for a while after Belker's Death, wondering aloud about
the sad fact that animal lives are shorter than human
lives. Shane, who had been listening quietly, piped up,
"I know why."
Startled, we all turned to
him.
What came out of his mouth next stunned
me. I'd never heard a more comforting explanation. It has
changed the way I try and live.
He said, "People are
born so that they can learn how to live a good life --
like loving everybody all the time and being nice,
right?"
The
six-year-old continued, "Well, dogs already know how to do
that, so they don't have to stay as
long."
Remember, if a dog
was the teacher you would learn things
like:
- When loved ones come home,
always run to greet them;
- Never pass up the opportunity
to go for a joyride;
- Allow the experience of fresh
air and the wind in your face to be pure
Ecstasy;
- Take naps;
- Stretch before
rising;
- Run, romp, and play
daily;
- Thrive on attention and let
people touch you;
- Avoid biting when a simple
growl will do;
- On warm days, stop to lie on
your back on the grass;
- On hot days, drink lots of
water and lie under a shady tree;
- When you're happy, dance
around and wag your entire body;
- Delight in the simple joy of a
long walk;
- Be loyal;
- Never pretend to be something
you're not;
- If what you want lies buried,
dig until you find it;
- When someone is having a bad
day, be silent, sit close by, and nuzzle them
gently;
There comes a time
in life, when you walk away from all the drama and people
who create it.
You
surround yourself with people who make you laugh, forget
the bad, and focus on the good, so, love the people who
treat you right.
Think good thoughts for
the ones who don't ~ life is too short to be anything but
happy.
Falling down is part of
LIFE... Getting back up is
LIVING...
DON’T
COMPLAIN ABOUT GROWING OLD…
FEW
PEOPLE GET THE PRIVILEGE
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