The only unforgiveable  blaspheme of the Holy Spirit is for a person to refuse to accept the saving grace of Jesus…

All the other things you mentioned are “just” sin…  which are already forgiven by Jesus shed blood…

 

Once saved always saved… you cannot loose your salvation….

Many people that go to church do not get saved… They had an emotional experience, (remorse not repentance) got wet in the baptistery but never really believed Jesus in their heart—Romans 10:9-13

A changed heart results in a changed life… a transformation of the “old man” to a “new creation in Jesus” by the Holy Spirit… This does NOT mean that a believer will never sin again…. However a believer will be chastised by the Holy Spirit and eventually be reconciled to Jesus….

 

Re:  Bad gossipy churches… RUN to the closest exit !!!  Fellowship with GOD yourself if you can’t find a Bible Believing church… And these days that can be REALLY TOUGH !!!  Lots of believers only have “house churches” to fellowship with…

I was recently driven out of a church that had gone into the Rick Warren heresy—after 30 years there… I now fellowship in a small house church… with awesome teaching & fellowship…

 

Lewis B