Jan, that was a great teaching.  Thanks for sharing.  It would have offended

a lot of folks.  If you can't build up, don't knock down. [paraphrased]

 

Col 4:6: Let your speech be always with grace, seasoned with salt, that ye may know how ye ought to answer every man.

Col. 4:6 [YLT] "Let your conversation be gracious and effective so that you will have the right answer for everyone."