“But while they (the foolish ones) were gone to buy (more) oil, the bridegroom came. Then those who were READY (filled with the Spirit without spot or wrinkle - blameless) went in with him to the marriage feast, and the door was locked.

Later, when the other five bridesmaids RETURNED, (had oil but too late) they stood outside, calling, ‘Lord! Lord! Open the door for us!’ “But he called back, ‘Believe me, I don’t "know" you!’ (no intimate relationship)
 
“So.... YOU, TOO, must keep watch! For you do not know the day or hour of my return. (YOU, TOO can be left out) - Jesus  (Matthew 25:10-13)