Hi Deb,   Sorry to hear about your sorrows.  I have experienced something a little bit similar.  It's hard when family members are controlling, demoralizing, and saying you're the one that's nuts.  Hang in there with whatever you have to do and keep asking God for strength.    Ruby   http://www.fivedoves.com/letters/march2013/deb314.htm http://www.fivedoves.com/letters/feb2013/debbie228.htm