Well if you do it like I use to and write them and come in love yet pointing out how they are wrong and then backing it up with the word.. yeah does not go over well. hehe  I know that's not what you are talking about.
 
You are not wrong. I said something else in another letter about how I was seeing the word of God is being said "written by man and man is not God" and no one saying anything. This bothers me so much for its on rapture sites.
 
Me I learned you never seek dreams or visions or gifts those come after. Some now seek these as how God talks. God does give wonderful drams and visions and this is written. But what I find so many don't know is God will ALWAYS back it up with the word in the dream or vision. There is never a doubt.
 
So asking is wise. So many different things getting said...lol there been a few times I said.. how in the world am I the bad guy here? Asking showing where it IS written. To love to forgive to pray for our leaders for their protection. Something else I learned many years ago. You never go by feelings. I could care less how I feel what it looks like sounds like ..its by faitih.. its by the word. If I have to ADD to the word to make is say something.. I am wrong.
 
Anyway.. brother keep asking. I had God say to me when I asked Him why a man in a elder home was not getting healed. I said..I had a right to know why for you gave me this burden. So He said.. Remember when Daniel prayed?...
I new just what He was talking about so I asked haha.. ok if this is you where is this written? He gave me chapter and verse.. I though ooh I am just guessing. It was Chapt 10: 9-12. What was unreal.. so kool so wonderful was I had never at that time read the book of Daniel. Had no clue where that lol was.
 
So.. I ask ALL! HAHA even God! And He is SOOOO Awesome.. He smiles and gives it as if expecting me to ask..