The Spirit and The Bride ( friend of bridegroom) first calls all those listening - to separate themselves from "the house" to come out and meet their Lord. Outside the house , what was once the Church (that Jesus built) - they will each need to be filled with The Holy Spirit who will lead and light their way to The Groom's house which has been prepared for them. These are the wise ones who enter God's house to become His bride. Those who do not leave the house because they ...are not filled and ready - their lights have gone out . They will remain outside of God's house until He returns for those who are alive and have remained. This will be at his Second Coming.
Note - these are two separate events !
Those ready , prepared and counted worthy to escape that which is coming upon this earth will be taken out - as if by a thief in the night.
Those not ready - are not worthy and will remain because they were caught unprepared as by a thief in the night - their house will be destroyed and they will be cast into outer darkness.
OUTSIDE THE HOUSE -This is the time during which all listening believers separate themselves from "the house" of dead churches and enter into the bride - The true Body of believers. This is a spiritual state of being and the place where the Bride is kept until she is completely ready to enter into God's house. Then The Bride is raptured!