Dear Charles and fellow doves,
Charkes, remember also we are told to occupy until He comes. Coming out of her; I believe relates to ceasing from partaking of the sins of the world- we can't shut ourselves away in a cubby hole and wait for the Rapture. We need to be winning souls for His Kingdom.
And- there's nothing wrong with a piece of chocolate cheesecake- if you ate the whole cake- well, that would be gluttony. Also, nothing wrong in having a garage sale.
A gentle reminder; your primary role is to love your wife as Jesus loves us.
God bless, Susan