I agree, that is something that has bothered me too of late.
Is it just the ones I am running across or is this some other phenomena?
I like many things about the charismatics being radical for Jesus and all
I believe in the gifts of the spirit and have seen them in action.
But for some reason this timing thing escapes many of them.
I know there are some things I don't like in the charismatic movement.
But it seems that oddities are equally spread through the denominations.
 
Hyperspirituality can certainly fall into the ego category
But being sensitive to the Holy Spirit is a must.