Jenny,
My heart goes out to you, your husband Steve, and your two children.  I prayed for you and I join in believing that God will be your Jehovah Jirah and provide for you and your family all that you need.  I don't know where you live and I don't know yours or Steve's gifts or experiences, but there seem to be more government jobs than any other kind right now.  You don't have to be a Veteran to apply for any job, but Veteran status would help prioritize your status.  Go to this website below and enter your zipcode.
www.usajobs.com
Please keep us posted with updates so that we can continue to pray and praise the Lord as He answers.
 
God bless you my sister and hang on to the hope that you have in Christ. 
Kim D