Mary re seeing dead loved ones

There is truth in what you say, but there are exceptions

Number one example being the time when Jesus and his disciples saw Moses and Elijah

Now, one of the things we Christians have to battle against is a religious spirit

That is, if it didn't happen to me it couldn't happen to you type of thinking

This is why many people do not accept tongues, healing, and miracles.

This is why word of knowledge is so rare

It is kind of like waht the Dispensationalists think, that those things were only meant for the first church

There are people here that have had experienced heaven and hell here also

Then we have those who say that it is not from God.

Well, if that is true I guess I am a liar too, but I am not

God answers prayers in many different ways, and deals with us individually

So lets not put God in a box that is limited to our own personal experience

Accept the different gifts of others for the edification of the body