What should be the attitude of the bride as we await the return of the groom? I have heard some say it  doesn't concern them when he returns; others say when it happens it happens; others say stop dwelling on it especially the men. Why the oh the nonchalant attitude? Why oh why this disdain for the arrival of the King? We shall see him as he sees us face to face joy unspeakable!!! I for one as some of the ones that truly feel isolated by their family; friends; long to see him to be rid of this temporary tent I live and groan in... this world has become foreign to me. It hurts knowing others around the world are suffering more than me as they also await the return ... Is it such a no big deal event??  Should it not be!!!!!!! We will cheat death ... imagine that for a moment... I watch my mother who is on hospice slowly fade away and wonder if she will cheat death.... you see it will be the greatest reward to ever obtain... beyond being saved............... to see him coming in the clouds... to see the dead rise first; then to join them .... what a day that shall be!!!!!  May it come.. Lord we are weary, we wait with a humble heart knowing one day joy unspeakable will come... can you almost hear the cry of the Lord???