Hi Charles,
I read the pain you have in warning your wife and loved ones on the imminent return of the Lord.

May I suggest you not let your heart be troubled.  I have warned my loved ones too.

Now I simply point them to Jesus.  I love them with God's Love.  With the Holy Spirit's guidance, I speak what He has me speak to them.  Sometimes He keeps me quiet.
He just has me bask in His Presence.  His Presence in me then spills over and people around me sense the Peace of God surpasses their understanding.

I always ask the Lord to protect my family and loved ones.

Almighty God knows you want them to be ready.  He does too.  Your prayers and Love for them will help them become overcomers.

Blessings,
Carolina Garza