Stephen,  I am so sorry your are having to go through this.

Some articles say this is more common in men than women -  Some say it's really not .     I know one thing,  it's a miserable thing to have to deal with -  I know -  I had 3 surgeries between 1982 - 1989.     I also was diagnosed with the pilonital sinus which differs from the pilonital cyst because it tracks / tunnels , meaning the last surgery had a longer incistion to get all of the 'tunnel'.

Stephen  I am praying for you and I know anyone else who has ever dealt with one of these is praying also -  and we're going to believe our Lord can lead and guide you to the best help for this or even better -  a MIRACLE !!
 

Holy and Gracious Father,

Please release the power of Your Love and Healing as well as Knowledge and Leadership unto Stephen to set Your servant FREE in Jesus' Name from this 'flesh birth defect'.    We claim the New Birth in Jesus Christ to bring all of the healing, love and wisdom into Stephen's life that he could possibly need.   We ask  you Mighty God to lead and guide Stephen across the paths of those whom you have touched that can help correct this once and for all - eternally ........... whether it be through a miraculous healing or another surgeon.

Father cover and protect Stephen,   hold him close and let Him know again very clearly - how close You really are.

In Jesus' Name