Standing firm in the face of even well meaning criticism is not easy. My husband and I are both praying for you.
None of us know everything and really we do only see in part as Paul suggests.
The spirit of the Living God through the shed blood of Jesus dwells in us as believers. God knows what it is like to live in the world and yet not be of it. He knows intimately the struggle we are facing in walking the narrow path. He has overcome sin, the world and all darkness.
Lord shelter us in You!
As your sister in Christ Jesus, I humbly suggest that the Lord is proud of you and knows what truly motivates your heart.
Fay in TX