We are not "stuck", but we will be plucked!:)
I have prayed that you have increased understanding of your dreams. My impression is this a warning re: your aunt and that the many other details might speak more to you or her specifically. However, I had a bit of trouble understanding which details were in the dream and which were in the natural. You have many details surrounding family and the loss of your grandmother. Was she saved? Is your aunt saved? Hope this helps.
On Chernobyl(wormwood); I am coming to believe a coming asteroid may poison an ocean with radiation?
Blessings to all.