Hi doves

I ask you in name of Jesus Christ, my Lord and Saviour to please advice me of an incident , Please it is urgent, and please do tell me what is happening. I am going to write below the scenario. I ask you once again in name of Jesus, not to judge fast, but please do read carefully.

I have a Friend, He is a young man, He came to Christ from another religion 12 years ago, He suffered much for His Faith, He belives in Jesus Christ as His Saviour and Lord, and Believes in the same values and beliefs of Evangelical Christianity or Born again.

He  ofcourse, has had his ups and downs, in his walk with the Lord. But the last 2 years, something strange has happend to him sometimes. ANd He does not know which pastor to go to, cos some people judge him too fast.

The situation is like this,

He was hurt very badly by a christian  woman, and he began to fall into depression and sorrow and unforgiveness, He still made the Lord known what he is going through.

the last 2 years something strange happens once a month or once in 3 months , Suddenly something strange happens, when is he is crying or in deep pain,  the following steps happen.

1. He starts to cry or pain remembering something sad or about that woman etc

2. Some "thing" then tries to enter him, and he starts to shake and froth in his mouth and hisses, and his face becomes tight and terrible

3. he becomes aware in his mind, something is trying to enter him or half entered, and he cries out in his mind "Lord Jesus Christ, my Father pls help me, I belong to you alone something is entering me please set me free from this"

4. Then his hissing slows down and stops, his face becomes peaceful, and he starts to speak in tounges, and he moves his hand as if commanding that thing to go away and he says a strange langauge that uses words like "YASHUA NAZARETH, HALLELUIAH, ABBA" etc, and words that sound bit like the normal tounges speaking.

5. The thing goes off. He feels peace, and He just bit shaken but thanks God and praises God.

Now please dont jump imideately and say He is possessed by a demon , I know he is having unforgiveness and some sorrow in Him he is struggling with it, he is bit reluctant to go to some pastor, cos most pastors just dont care to listen, and fast to judgement.

He has not involved in any occult oranything, But yes he needs to forgive, and HE is asking God daily the grace to forgive, and he has improved a lot.

He loves Jesus Christ very much, and HE confesses Jesus Christ is his Lord . HE was perseccuted once for his faith severely.

He is bit worried of this,and so am I, what exactly is happening  ? can you please explain to me each step that i observed? is he possesed by a demon? or is that demon trying to enter him or attacking him, or even entering half into him, but pushed back by God ? whats happening? please could you tell me, after reading carefully ?

Its very easy to say he is not christian etc, yes he may have backslidden sometimes, but HE knows the Lord is taking care of Him and He is making efforts the best way he can, and improvements have been there

but when he cries or in deep pain "this thing" tries to enter him or"half enters him" making him look like that movie almost like the movie excorist type

its bit scary, I KNOW him for many years, HE LOVES THE LORD, he is not into occult or anything, But pls tell me whats going on step by step. and Please pray for him, pls dont judge him he belongs to Jesus. I saw this happen with my own two eyes, and I know he admits its a problem. He just needs to find the right people to advise and pray over him, not judge him or condemn him imimdeately.

pls tell me whats happening slowly, and if so why does that "thing" not enter fully but leaves and why is he talking in that langauge and suddenly so peaceful ? what is Jesus trying to do?

please help
in Jesus name