I would refer her to the posting on 4-12-09 entitled "ExJehovah Witness Learns the Witnesses Lie About Our Spirit Bodies."  There are also two other references at the bottom of the last page.  Also, there is an excellent book entitled "False Facts on False Teachings" by Ron Carlson and Ed Decker.  Contact Christian Ministries International at www.roncarlson.com.   Blessings to you.

 

Wes K.