There is one thing we need to realize. No matter HOW we raise our children, though if raised in believing and trusting in Jesus, we CAN claim that verse - train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old he will not depart from it ---- that means they may turn and end up fighting God for the first 30 years of their life, before they turn to him when they are older. This is hard on people who raise their children as Christians, then when they are teens, they send them off to college and the instructors (most of which are ATHEISTS) program all religion and belief in God out of them! We must keep praying for them and believing God - just as Paul told the Phil. jailer - "believe in the Lord Jesus Christ and thou shalt be saved, AND THY HOUSE!" Sister, keep on keepin' on!