Cathy Matamoros (3 May 2008)
"re: Rene and Rowina"
--Rene,
Amen sister to your
excellent article about the deceptions of "the recognized religion" and
to Rowina about praying for your son and grandchildren.
First
let me say that I have lived with a husband for the last 11 yrs. who is
Catholic, he has an altar in our living room with "holy water", images
of guadalupe (I refuse to call her Mary), oh he has an image of Jesus
there too, behind guadalupe, and there's also a little statue of St
Jude or as he calls him San Judas. He lights candles, and buys
flowers for his "imagenes." He just a short while ago wrote a
letter of prayer request to the National Shrine of St. Jude in Chicago,
I'm sure for my son who is in prison and my mother with Alzhiemers, and
I certainly appreciate the fact that he cares enough to pray for
them. I just wish he would pray to The One who could answer those
prayers.
I have tried for eleven years to get through to
him, he listens to my Christian music and I have even managed to get
him into my church a few times. Although he doesn't understand English
well enough to grasp a lot of what he hears, I've tried to help him
understand in Spanish that he is being deceived through the Catholic
church; but like I said in a previous post it only gets me arguments
and stony silence.
A couple of years ago,at Christmas,
after one of those stony silences I bought him a Spanish Bible... it
took him months before he even picked it up. He told me some time
later that he had never in his life read a Bible. I later bought
a Spanish/English side by side translation to try and help him along
but it became apparent that he really just isn't that interested in
God's word... unless it comes out of the mouth of a priest. He
claims to believe in Jesus, yet he continues to pray and worship his
other images. He asked me to cross myself the other day for some
reason I don't recall, and I told him absolutely not. I may have
to tolerate his little altar set-up and such but I will not participate
in it with him.
So Rowina I know where you are and how
difficult it is for you. The situation is a little different, no
belief where your son is concerned, and misguided belief with my
husband, but the end result is the same. We love them and pray
for them but we frustrate ourselves in the process. I was raised
a Methodist and left the Methodist church a few years ago for a
wonderful non-denominational church because I was looking for a church
that taught the uncompromising Truth of Jesus Christ, the Living God
and my husband called me a traitor for doing so. I have found
myself falling out of love with him as a result of all of this
conflict. Don't get me wrong, he is a wonderful man, caring,
kind, hard working and I do love him still. But it is difficult
to have the kind of intimacy God wants us to have in marriage when we
are at opposing ends. Before I married him I knew so little of
the Catholic religion, like I said I grew up Methodist and a lot of the
same "rituals" you'll find in both churches. I went back to the
church I had left on Easter with my Mom and brothers family who still
attend there and I can't tell you how out of place I felt. Don't
get me wrong , I am not knocking the Methodist church, just that I
wasn't being "fed" there, and I am at the church where I am a member
now.
I just think we need to keep praying. I know
my Grandmother's prayers for me were answered not long after she passed
away. I had been a Laodicean Christian till then. The hour she
passed away, at 4am, my clock radio ceased to function. I picked
up my Bible, dusted it off and opened it, it opened to Psalm 121.
A couple of days later at her funeral, the pastor she had requested to
give her eulogy opened with Psalm 121. I felt that it was God
speaking to me in my time of distress because I loved my Grandmother
dearly and I was constantly aware of her prayers for me, although I had
poo-pooed them off a lot of the times as I was growing up and my
stubborn and rebellious side was alive and kickin'.
God
hears the prayers of his true children and He answers every one of
them, in His perfect will and in His perfect time. So until He
comes we need to do as Paul instructs us in Colossians 4:2 Continue
earnestly in prayer, being vigilant in it with thanksgiving.
I'm with you both...
Maranatha!
Cathy