Thanks for your letter Wade. Of course to reach out to the world you must go out in it. However the problem I am refering to is the church becoming like the world which in the dream I shared was represented by a whore house. It is the term that God had used when speaking of the house of Israel when it turned from Him. Since  we are in the last days sin of course abounds and many have fallen away. False teaching has OK'd many things that once were understood and avoided.
 
So to be wise we must be very careful to stay in the boundries he has given us. Legalism is the law without the Holy Spirit. Liberalism is the Holy Spirit without the laws of Chirst. Either way we are out of step like you say in your analogy to the dance.