"Nicole...how to deal?"
I read about your problem with wondering on how to deal and it made me
think of my own personal close to home issues that I've been dealing
with. Thankfully, this person lives so far away from you,
ha! Maybe limit the phone calls to once a day or every
other day. Four times a day seems a little extreme and could
drive anyone crazy. You don't have to agree with everything
this person is doing or condone it but if its effecting you, get some
distance from the phone calls. There is nothing ungodly,
unChristian like about that. I may not be older than you (31) but
with similar situations of how to deal with people well I just thought
I could pass on some kind of advice.
Have a wonderful weekend....maybe phone call free?!!!