I have some concerns with this video.  This man tells us that Jesus wills suffering in our lives.  At times - perhaps but I believe most of the suffering in the world is the work of our enemy.
This man says we must suffer to pay for our sins - well doesn't that make Jesus's work on the Cross pretty useless then?  Jesus died to bear our sins - we cannot conquer or sinful natures or get forgiveness no matter how much we may suffer - Christ took this upon His own precious self at Calvary.
Red flags in this video for me.
 
ysiC, Susan