AMEN to this: As for my neighbor, I forgive him, I will pray for him, but I cannot allow him around my family any more.'course, like you say -- your son is also an adult now.... so one must be wise & use discernment in telling him that it's not a good idea to be around the neighbor anymore... [outright ordering him not to may backfire, eh?] but at any rate, we'll pray that your son(s) will wise up & have no desire to be around the neighbor. This neighbor is BAD NEWS!!!Reva