Dear Rowina,My heart hurts for you as it sounds likes yours is almost breaking.Please remember for you and Irv and for everyone one of us that this life is not what it really about. We are just passing through. Though our passages are often painful and trying we are all running the race for the greater reward-2 Timothy7 I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. 8Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day—and not only to me, but also to all who have longed for his appearing.May I encourage you with this Scripture as surely His appearing is drawing close and all the high, difficult hurdles and many obstacles will be long forgotten once we are in His presence.I will pray for the Lord to surround you and Irv with His supernatural comfort and His peace, which passes all understanding.YSIC and fellow "race runner".Gina