This phrase comes from an awesome testemony of a South African boy who was in a horrible accident. I saw his mother talking about it on Sid Roth's show. He was severly debilitated after the accident. Basicly he was what we call a vegetable, could not move, eat or speak. His mother was given a word before this re God using him so she tenatiously prayed for him and brought him back home in this state.
 
Eventualy he began moving, then eating then writing, then speaking. His first comminication was thru letters. Thus the title of the book, messages from God. He was one of the priveldged ones to see heaven before death. One thing that struck me was the message of the Golden bridge, which by the way has been testified by another.
 
At the rapture there is a golden bridge that one must cross over to enter thru the golden gate.
Many people were stuck on the golden bridge and could not enter thru the gate. These were the foolish virgins, the ones that Jesus did not know, just like the scripture. The message to this boy was that they would be there forever because they refused to obey Jesus even though they knew him. So the message is to know him now intimately, be married to him now.