Hurray Ellen
You are right
Whatever experiences people think they have and wherever that might lead them does NOT change a thing. I also do not see God at his wits end and wringing his hands. It should be remembered that God also uses our 'mistakes' for good and to glorify His name.
I am not about to start beating up on someone or attacking their faith and it's origins so now would be a good time to say- let God's peace rest on us all.
Cary