Jean Stepnoski (5
Dec 2011)
"The
Pretense: Marital Hypocrisy and Fraudulent Family Values"
Dear Doves,
In the stories in Genesis about
the days of Noah we learn about the almost total hypocrisy of
the wives/mothers towards their marriages. How so? The
wives/mothers had been mating with fallen angels, in adultery
and fornication, and creating Nephilites. Over generations, this
happened and worsened until only one family line was perfect in
its generations, the Noah family only. In the days of Noah,
there must have been impossible and supreme spiritual discord
and havoc in almost all the marriages and families. The
untainted line of only Noah went forward to Messiah/Christ.
Christ would never have been allowed to have the ancestry of
fallen angels, such defiant ones.
What of the days of Lot and their
community values of marital hypocrisy and family trajedy? We
learn of Sodom's approval of adultery and fornication, for the
husbands/fathers to practice male homosexuality among men and
homosexual pedophilia. All the men of Sodom converge late at
night outside Lot's home that they "might know" Lot's male
guests. This includes the men and boys of Sodom "from youth to
old age." First in the times of Noah, and later in the days of
Lot, marriage vows, fidelity, and family values became bad
jokes. The Pretense. What happens to a nation or place when "the
combination package" becomes accepted everywhere by members of
that culture, that society? Heterosexual marriage and family
lives become fake fronts, window dressing, smokescreens, cover
stories, The Pretense. With degenerating marital and family
values, the spouses avidly seek "arrangements on the side"
outside their marriages. They consider themselves clever in
their plans, schemes, dishonesty, and games and tricks. They
convince themselves that there are sexual "generic alternatives"
to their marriages.
This dreadful hypocrisy, abject
phoniness to the core, has been displayed in recent weeks in
stories in American media. It is seen in the marriage and
impending divorce of an American "cougar" wife and her younger
husband and his "open marriage" enthusiasms for women under the
age of 25. Combo pack! We see it in the lurid stories from Penn
State University and Syracuse University about 2 less than
doting husbands/fathers and their "attractions" to boys. And we
see it in the story about a man from Atlanta, Georgia concerning
a 13 year duration friendship with a female "friend" given cash
gifts, seemingly not declared to the IRS by giver or recipient.
Who is being fooled? There is no "package deal" or sexual
"generic alternatives" or "combo pack" or "arrangements on the
side" outside heterosexual marriage and family life which are
approved by Father, Son, Spirit. Marital hypocrisy to marriage
bed and vows and fraudulent family values do not get blessed in
days of old or now. The Master promised that the world would
have values again of the days, the times of Noah and of Lot. The
Pretense is here. We see The Pretense all around us in the
marital hypocrisy, infidelity, fraudulent family values, and
brazen and defiant lack of repentance. "As the days of Noah
were, so shall the coming of the Son of Man be." Come quickly,
Lord...
With Love and Shalom,
Jean