Stay with your family, it is Christmas and all your sacrifices will be rewarded by Our Lord, you will be sacrificing your ego for the greater good, I know it is hard to knuckle under to someone.  However, I am sure your sacrifice won't last long, keep quiet and think how dismayed your wife will be when she realizes how you were right all along.  Pray for her and forgive her, I know it is hard but it is part of the process of purification, we must not have resentment against anyone if we want to go in the rapture.   I wish you well and will be praying for your hard situation.   Andrea