K.S. Rajan (15
Aug 2011)
"Days
of Noah are here"
Yes, I am Gay! Why should I not marry?
Being gay is not abnormal anymore and it never was! Liking a
person of the same sex is legal in most parts of the world.
But... marrying isn't. Ironical but true, most of the countries
in the world have accepted and legalised same sex relationships,
yet such marriages are illegal in some countries. It has been
legalised only in a limited part of the globe.
Countries which have legalised same sex marriages are Argentina,
Belgium, Canada, Iceland, the Netherlands, Norway, Portugal,
Spain, South Africa, and Sweden. It is also performed and
recognised in Mexico City and parts of the United States. In
2001, the Netherlands became the first nation in the world to
grant same-sex marriages.
In the rest of the world it is either still illegal or has been
legalised to be in a relationship but not marry.
Clearly, the world is very different towards these people who
chose to accept their sexual orientation. The
traditional/orthodox society usually grants marriage as the
ultimate relationship which makes your life complete. However,
when it comes to LGBT, the same society wants them not to marry.
If this is not hypocrisy, then what is. We are ready to accept
their existence, their relationship...but are not ready for them
to marry according to their own wishes.
While a few societies have recognised same-sex unions as
marriages, there is still a large range of attitudes towards
same-sex unions ranging from praise, to sympathetic toleration,
to indifference, to prohibition.
The opponents of same-sex marriages have argued that recognition
of such marriages would erode religious freedoms, and that
same-sex marriage, while doing good for the couples that
participate in them and the children they are raising,
undermines the right of children to be raised by their
biological mother and father.
Meanwhile, the supporters take the view that the government
should have no role in regulating personal relationships. If a
government grants individual liberty and privacy, it should
respect that right.
Even three years after Amsterdam's mayor officiated the
Netherlands' first gay wedding, the gay marriage rate is falling
worldwide. One of the prime reasons is its illegal status in
many countries, another being the taboo attached to it.
In a world where even the UN clarifies that being Homosexual is
not a disease, it's important that we let them live their life
as per their wishes. Who are we to intrude into a personal
aspect of anyone's life, and decide what is wrong or right? It's
not enough to just accept somebody's existence and boast about
our broadmindedness. We need to really open our minds, give
people their rights, whether gay, lesbian or straight and let
everyone lead their lives on their own terms.