Hi Brother Wade,
I don't know much about the numbers stuff, I never really understood that but what I do know is that our Heavenly Father is very interested and involves in our lives. Sometimes its very difficult to understand but as the word of God says "All things work together for good to them who loves the Lord".
Continue to seek the Lord and ask Him what is it that He is trying to teach you. I have found that in my own life that as we grow closer in our walk with Him, anything we ask He will do it. However many times when we go through difficult situations it is because He is preparing us for something great.
I pray that the Lord would bless you and show Himself strong in your life. I pray that the Lord would reveal Himself more and more to you and that your walk with Him would grow closer and closer each day.
Lord Jesus, work it out that my brother and you child would be able to see his son. Also Jesus let the hearts of his children be turn to him once more. Bless Him Jesus with peace and power so that he can serve you in the manner that you have called him to. I ask this in your name Jesus and I thank you because you are a wonderful and merciful Savor.