I sympathise and empathise and it makes me sick to my stomach also.
However, Jesus would have us pray for these people also. Im sure you know that already.
Vengeance is not ours to mete out - it is for our Lord to do the judging.
Please - search your heart and ask that your own hatred towards these people is forgiven - I believe it's okay to hate the behaviour but not the person.
I understand this is so hard though.....