Hi John and Doves,
Kristy, dear sister in Christ, the wonderful, wonderful post, delivered by Hoy, are the only words you will need. Read them and soak them up. We are all praying for you and yours, Kristy.
This, sent by Jan:- http://www.fivedoves.com/letters/apr2011/jan428.htm
May our LORD bless, love and keep you, always.